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Have a good look people...
This is what the media and the society has decided you should look like...
If you do not look like this, sorry ladies and gentlemen, you are not part of the beautiful people of earth.
No love for you, no sex, no chances of being a celebrity, a top model, or a movie star... just forget it. You don't belong.
That sounds pretty black and white, but it is the way most people, especially young ones think.
It all starts from school, where the overweight kids is outcasts, the funny looking ones are called names and kept away from the pack.
We have taught our own children that the ones who do not look and act like "cool" kids at school are just "losers" even if they are smarter than us...
A school nowadays is the worst place you would leave your kids. He has to become a brat or fall off the picture. He has to look classy or he will not have the same opportunities as the rest of the pupils!
All that for what?
We spend our lives trying to look like everyone...
Women want slimmer bodies with big breasts, and would go to any length to achieve the perfect body... surgery, ridiculous diets, and even starve themselves...
Men want more and more muscles with flat stomachs... and they would take any products, most of them high risks chemicals, just to look "bigger and sexier".
I mean, I am for looking good. But it is for me... not for anyone.
The minute you want to look different for the sake of anyone, you just lost yourself...
Understand me here, ok? If you are overweight and a doctor says you have to lose weight for your own health, so be it... There are ways you can lose weight without risking your life or ruining yourself...
But if you do it because you feel insecure and you want to fit in... that is the most ridiculous thing you could ever do.
There are five billion people or more on earth, that means five billions or more unique human beings...
You are unique, not a serial product... Don't try to be a serial product! You look just the way you should look, and if someone doesn't like it, who cares?
I know it is difficult to feel rejected by others... but how difficult do you think it is to be rejected by your own self? Looking at the mirror and thinking you don't belong... I mean, you look at yourself, and you don't like your own self... How sick is that?
You will spend only a few hours of your life with others... and you are going to spend your whole life with that body of yours... Whose appreciation should you consider most? yours or theirs? Do the math!
So, let make it clear for everyone.
You have to love yourself, before anyone can even try to take the time to like you... If someone does not like you for who you are, and it affects you, it means you are trying too hard to please someone who is not worth it...
It doesn't matter who that person is... It could be wrong friends, even family. If they cannot accept you as an individual with his own mind and body, you have no business trying to please them...
Relationship means liking someone, and that someone likes us back...if it does not come back to you, there is no relationship!
Got it? Good.
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